Son don’t worry ive gotten lots of anon hate for calling this fandom out on its bullshit, I feel you.
DID YOU EVEN READ MY FREAKING RANT? OR ANY OF MY OTHER RANTS BECAUSE I GOT ONE THAT TALKS ABOUT WHAT YOU JUST SAID. Your idea of this ship is just as trashy as the others. And I WILL continue to blame you all because you are ALL shipping it so you are ALL contributing to it
also, this contributes to the “abusers can change, why don’t you just go back with him for a liitle bit” culture. so yeah. this ship is very harmful
best thing i learned working with and learning about kids: when they do shit like this, especially to something they themselves use and enjoy, leave it there for as long as possible. let them return to the fun thing over and over again so that it sinks in that the thing they did was wrong, they ruined something, and now they can’t have fun because of it and they should never do it again. it teaches them consequence of action and cautiousness.
i did this with a 3-year-old kid i babysat who filled his playstation with peanut butter before i got there, just every time he went back to it and asked why it’s not working, i opened it and pointed to the peanut butter stains and said “you did that” and he says “yeah”, “will it work like that?” “…no”, and when he got it and promised to never put anything but games into a game machine again, his parents bought another and he kept his promise. it works, even at that age.
this was a long and unnecessary rant but so many times i’ve seen parents IMMEDIATELY replace their kids’ toys/electronics that they destroy over and over again and i’m just like NO THEY’RE NOT LEARNING ANYTHING THAT WAY
they also don’t learn from being thrown into fires
yeah but they’re quieter that way
im just a simple blogger, i wake up at 4 am to tend to my meme crop, i dont want any trouble