There is one (okay, kinda more than one, but this one in particular) of those "abusers can change, why don’t you just go back with him for a liitle bit" ships that is semi-popularish in my current fave show's fanbase too, so I feel your pain. And the fans refuse to at least acknowledge that it would be an unhealthy relationship in reality, and anyone that points that out, even on their own personal accounts without tagging anything, is attacking them. Brainwashed by the culture, I'd say.

Son don’t worry ive gotten lots of anon hate for calling this fandom out on its bullshit, I feel you.

With this all Ozzy/Thrax shipping going on I need to say one thing. I agree. Mostly. I used to love this ship. (Now I have grown out of it some.) But I never shipped it because violence or rape or thing like that. My main "plot" for their romance was Thrax being caught and in prison and from there he slowly grew relationship with Ozzy. No abuse, no shit like that. So please. Don't blame us all for shipping rape stuff.



DID YOU EVEN READ MY FREAKING RANT? OR ANY OF MY OTHER RANTS BECAUSE I GOT ONE THAT TALKS ABOUT WHAT YOU JUST SAID. Your idea of this ship is just as trashy as the others. And I WILL continue to blame you all because you are ALL shipping it so you are ALL contributing to it

also, this contributes to the “abusers can change, why don’t you just go back with him for a liitle bit” culture. so yeah. this ship is very harmful

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best thing i learned working with and learning about kids: when they do shit like this, especially to something they themselves use and enjoy, leave it there for as long as possible. let them return to the fun thing over and over again so that it sinks in that the thing they did was wrong, they ruined something, and now they can’t have fun because of it and they should never do it again. it teaches them consequence of action and cautiousness.

i did this with a 3-year-old kid i babysat who filled his playstation with peanut butter before i got there, just every time he went back to it and asked why it’s not working, i opened it and pointed to the peanut butter stains and said “you did that” and he says “yeah”, “will it work like that?” “…no”, and when he got it and promised to never put anything but games into a game machine again, his parents bought another and he kept his promise. it works, even at that age.

this was a long and unnecessary rant but so many times i’ve seen parents IMMEDIATELY replace their kids’ toys/electronics that they destroy over and over again and i’m just like NO THEY’RE NOT LEARNING ANYTHING THAT WAY 

they also don’t learn from being thrown into fires

yeah but they’re quieter that way


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